Is it considered two-timing if you like two guys and considering them at the same time? Waiting only to see who will act first. My sister said no. I thought no too. Is it fair to them? Well, they could be doing the same to me too, before confirming if it is really me they want. In this case, will I be playing fair to go up to one and ask if he likes me while the other is still making up his mind about you? Am I giving them both equal chances then? Am I being fair to myself? Am I denying myself anything here?