Is it just me or is this how the world goes?

Why is it the more a man means to you the more he is likely to disappoint you? Or is it just because he means so much to you that you have higher expectations of him and thus your greater disappointments?

All the deep hurts and great disappoints I have experienced all come from people who mean alot to me. Why is it that the more you treasure someone the more you will be hurt by the person? Should it not be that the person should give you only happiness and smiles? Why the pain and sadness?

The world sucks. Men suck. God sometimes sucks too.