I am not adverse to people telling me what they think. But I AM adverse to people who hide behind anonymity to tell people what THEY think. Especially if they do not have even the sligtest idea what I am talking about or referring to.

Mr or Miss Anonymity on my tagboard is just being plain irritating and rude, and I will tell you so even if you are my friend or someone I know.

This is the reason why so many politicians and governments find no integrity in online posts, and often go to the extent of banning it. Because more often than not, the slight minority who chooses who to make their views known choose to do it behind the safety screen on anonymity so easily set up online.

Expressing your views online is not a bad thing. It only becomes dubious when people refuse to bear responsibility what they say.

If I am Miss Stubborn, Mr/Miss Anonymity is plain rude and arrogant.

Stubborn is when you know you are wrong and insists on being wrong. I have never been that if I have been convinced that I am wrong. I just stand firm in what I believe in and persist in being so, until proven otherwise.

I can delete Mr/Miss Anonymity's comments easily. But I will leave it on to show his/hers shallowness in knowing me.

Please tell me how to talk to people who are so stubborn and self-righteous that they cannot see where they are going wrong.

I hope I never lose my ability and perspective to self-reflect and be objective in judging myself.

There are times when I know I am simply blowing hot air, just for fun. Then there are times when I truly believe I can be or do better than what is. And there are the times when I also admit I am not as good.

It takes someone who knows me well to differentiate when I am which above.

Sadly sometimes it is the people who I should be closest to that cannot tell.