Please tell me how to talk to people who are so stubborn and self-righteous that they cannot see where they are going wrong.

I hope I never lose my ability and perspective to self-reflect and be objective in judging myself.

There are times when I know I am simply blowing hot air, just for fun. Then there are times when I truly believe I can be or do better than what is. And there are the times when I also admit I am not as good.

It takes someone who knows me well to differentiate when I am which above.

Sadly sometimes it is the people who I should be closest to that cannot tell.