I was just re-reading my previous blog. Guessed it came off a little bitter and defensive.

No, that was not what I was trying to say. I am definitely not pointing fingers, just commenting how the situation is making me feel.

In any case, perhaps I have been rather barbed and unpredictable the past couple of years. However, I was definitely never feeling bitter, unhappy or defensive. Rather, I was impatient. That I admit. I decided not to 'waste' time on people and issues I feel have low ROI - Return Of Investment (of time, emotions and effort).

Ok ok ok, life will never balance up and relationships cannot be equalised.

Let us all try once more.